Is it narcissism or just main character energy? Let's find out.
Are you a narcissist? If you’re here, you’ve probably wondered whether your confidence is actually masking something deeper or if you just have unapologetic main character energy. This narcissism test will find out if you have any of the classic narcissistic personality traits. We'll explore everything from attention-seeking habits to how you react when someone tells you no. Through twelve focused questions, we'll look at your confidence, empathy, validation cravings, and the way you navigate praise, criticism, and power dynamics. Maybe you lean toward grandiose narcissism, or maybe you’re just self-aware enough to question your own tendencies. Either way, this isn’t a clinical diagnosis. It’s a quick way to understand the patterns that show up in your relationships, work, and life.
Narcissism isn’t just about vanity or ego. It’s a mix of insecurity, charm, sensitivity, and the need to feel significant, all wrapped together in ways most people never fully unpack. This quiz explores those themes to show whether you’re genuinely self-centered, quietly overcompensating, or simply confident with a chaotic edge. Think of it as a mirror held up to your inner self, revealing how you protect yourself, how you seek connection, and how your identity shifts under pressure. If you’re ready to see where you actually fall on the narcissism spectrum, take the quiz and find out.
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If this quiz got you analyzing your reflection a little too closely, try taking our What Human Emotion Am I Quiz to uncover the feeling that drives most of your actions. Or, for a different kind of self-evaluation, try our Am I Alpha, Beta, or Omega Quiz to see how your confidence and ego balance out. And if you’re curious about how your personality shows up in relationships, take our Love Language Quiz.
How do you usually respond when someone gives you a genuine compliment?
• Smile, say thanks, and move on.
• Accept it confidently without overthinking.
• Use it as proof you are better than others.
• Feel relieved but secretly doubt they mean it.
• Tell them you work hard to inspire others.
• File it away to use against them later.
What best describes your relationship with social media?
• Mostly for keeping in touch or entertainment.
• A highlight reel, but not my whole life.
• A platform to showcase my wins and influence.
• A place to hint at my struggles for support.
• A way to share my good deeds and inspire.
• A tool to watch, judge, and respond strategically.
How do you react when someone outshines you?
• Congratulate them genuinely.
• Acknowledge them and focus on my own lane.
• Feel competitive and push to reclaim the spotlight.
• Feel small, resentful, or overlooked.
• Link their win to my support or influence.
• Undermine them or point out their flaws.
What is your main goal in group settings?
• Connect and enjoy the moment.
• Have fun and maybe share a story or two.
• Lead, impress, and be remembered.
• Avoid embarrassment and keep my guard up.
• Organize and help so others see my value.
• Control the dynamics or play people against each other.
When you achieve something big, your first instinct is to:
• Feel proud and share with close friends.
• Celebrate and share online without overhyping it.
• Make sure everyone knows about it.
• Worry it is not good enough.
• Thank people publicly for supporting me.
• Use it to remind certain people where they stand.
How do you handle criticism?
• Consider it and decide if it is useful.
• Take it with perspective.
• Defend myself and point out my accomplishments.
• Feel hurt and withdraw.
• Rally others to reassure me I am right.
• Go on the offensive and discredit them.
What is your biggest source of self worth?
• Who I am and how I treat people.
• My personality and life experiences.
• My achievements and reputation.
• How much people validate me.
• My role as a helper or leader in my community.
• My ability to win and control situations.
When you meet someone new, you usually:
• Listen and get to know them.
• Swap fun stories and build a good vibe.
• Impress them quickly.
• Worry they will not like me.
• Highlight ways I can help them.
• Gauge if they are useful or a threat.
How do you feel about needing attention?
• I am fine with or without it.
• I enjoy it but do not depend on it.
• I need to be noticed and admired.
• I crave it but feel unworthy.
• I like being recognized for doing good.
• I want it because it gives me leverage.
Your ideal legacy would be:
• People remembering me as kind and real.
• Being seen as fun, interesting, and inspiring.
• Monuments to my greatness.
• Proof I was worth something.
• A reputation as a selfless leader.
• Fear and respect from those I outmaneuvered.
How do you usually respond to conflict?
• Look for resolution and compromise.
• Stay calm and focus on moving forward.
• Stand my ground and assert my position.
• Take it personally and retreat.
• Try to appear as the peacemaker while winning favor.
• Escalate strategically to come out on top.
If someone close to you failed publicly, you would:
• Support them privately without judgment.
• Cheer them up and help them move on.
• Secretly enjoy the chance to shine brighter.
• Relate deeply to their embarrassment.
• Publicly comfort them to show loyalty.
• Use their failure as an opportunity for leverage.
You have very low levels of narcissistic traits, and you likely have a good deal of empathy. Praise feels nice but does not define your identity. You handle criticism with perspective and adjust when feedback makes sense. You value mutual respect over image or control. This result reflects a balanced and healthy self esteem.
You have high confidence and a healthy sense of self, even if you might get a little too self-focused from time to time. You enjoy attention, but you don't require it. You work hard to curate your image, but you don't sacrifice empathy or fairness to maintain it. You can take praise and criticism without spiraling. Maybe you pull others a little too much into your orbit sometimes, but you're not a narcissist. You just have a strong, healthy personality!
You seek admiration and status, and you believe your achievements set you apart. Competition energizes you, and you like being in charge. When challenged, you may tend to dismiss others' opinions and feelings a little too much. You may forget to empathize with other when you feel challenged. You lean towards grandiose narcissism, but remember that these tendencies do not define you.
You crave validation and fear rejection at the same time. You might have frequent swings in your self esteem, and you probably feel attacked when criticized. You may withdraw, ruminate, or keep score when you feel unseen or under-valued. The bottom line is that you're probably a little more entitled than you should be, and you should try to shift the spotlight to others a little more often.
You build identity around being helpful, moral, or community oriented, and you want that to be noticed. Your altruism is real at times, but it is also closely tied to recognition. You might frame your wins as service to others while tracking who gives you credit. You're probably doing some good in the world. Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons.
Your result indicates that you mix entitlement with low empathy and a taste for control. Charm and intimidation can both be tools when you want an edge. You may justify manipulation as necessary or deserved, and you can always find a reason to justify your actions. Rivalry and achievement likely matter more than your relationships, and that can lead to unhappiness. Try focusing less on your achievements or recognition and more on connecting with others.
