Is he into you…or is he just being nice?
Wondering if that guy actually likes you back? This quiz looks at how he talks to you, the way he acts in groups, and whether he puts in real effort to connect. It gives you a realistic, no-BS idea of whether or not he likes you. Just answer 10 questions and get a quick, accurate answer! Let's dive in and find out if your crush likes you back.
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If you’re still decoding his signals, start with our Does My Crush Like Me Quiz to see if the feelings are mutual. Or, if you’re catching deeper emotions, try our Am I In Love Quiz to find out if it’s more than infatuation. And when you’re ready to take things to the next level, explore our Are You Ready for Love Quiz.
How often does he start conversations with you?
• Almost every day, or at least every chance he gets.
• A few times a week. He is usually the one who initiates.
• Rarely, I’m usually the one to start talking to him.
• Never
When you talk, how into it does he seem?
• Super focused. He gives me attention and remembers little details I tell him.
• He seems interested, but he doesn't always remember the things I tell him.
• He's polite, but it seems like he's just making small talk.
• He keeps it pretty short. He often seems busy.
How does he act around you in groups?
• He often talks to me directly, or I often catch him looking at me.
• He splits his attention between me and others, but he seems happy when he's talking to me.
• He treats me like anyone else. I don't see any difference.
• He barely talks to me or looks at me.
Does he try to hang out one-on-one?
• Yes, he often asks me to hang out.
• Sometimes, if it’s convenient. Or he at least agrees whenever I ask him to.
• Rarely, or we haven't yet. But if I ask him I think he might.
• Not really. We don't hang out one-on-one, and he doesn't seem to want to.
How are his texts/DMs?
• He texts me a lot and always has a lot to say.
• He usually replies quick and texts me fairly often, but it's inconsistent.
• His texts are short, and he doesn't always keep the conversation going.
• He barely replies to me, and he leaves me on read.
Does he compliment you?
• He give me real compliments that seem thoughtful and true.
• He compliments me on simple things like my hair or outfit.
• He jokes around but doesn't really do compliments.
• He's literally never complimented me.
Does he share personal things with you?
• Yes, he opens up to me about the things he is dealing with.
• Sometimes, but it isn't that deep.
• We mostly just do small talk.
• No, he mostly keeps to himself.
What happens if you mention other guys around him?
• He gets a little jealous or changes the subject.
• He seems curious, but he plays it cool.
• He doesn't seem to care one way or the other.
• He seems to support me dating other guys.
How does he act physically around you?
• He always seems to end up near me, he might find excuses to touch me, and/or his body language is often open and facing toward me.
• He gives good hugs or maybe little touches, but nothing crazy.
• He seems friendly and open, but not touchy.
• We don't have any physical contact, and he's rarely sitting or standing near me.
When you need support, how does he react?
• He's always there for me right away.
• He helps if he has time and he's around.
• He's sympathetic, but he doesn't do much to help.
• He doesn't seem to care when I need support.
He shows real interest in you, both when you’re talking and when you’re not. He finds ways to spend time with you, listens closely, and goes out of his way to connect. The little things he does add up to one big answer: he’s definitely into you. So, what's next? Go talk to him! Ask him to hang out. He's probably going to say yes!
He gives signs he likes you, but they aren’t always consistent. Sometimes he’s engaged and flirty, other times he feels distant. He may be unsure, shy, or still figuring things out, but there’s definitely something there. He might be sending mixed signals because of his own insecurity...because there definitely seems to be something there!
He treats you kindly, but most signals point to friendship. He talks to you and spends time with you, just not in a way that feels romantic. It's definitely possible that he likes you and just isn't showing it very well...but most signs say no. As the old saying goes, if you're not sure if they like you, they probably don't. But there are a lot more fish in the sea!
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it doesn't sound like he's into you. He doesn’t put in effort to connect, and the energy isn’t there. The way he talks and acts suggests he sees you as a friend, classmate, or coworker. It can sting, but now you know where you stand and can focus your energy elsewhere. There are so many guys out there, and a lot of them are probably way cuter than him anyway!
