Are you getting princess treatment or settling for the bare minimum?
Is your man treating you like the royalty you are, or is he giving you the bare minimum and calling it good enough? This relationship quiz will ask you 10 questions about your relationship to help you figure out if you're getting princess treatment, a pile of excuses, or something in between.
Oh, and if you're reading this and you're the man in the relationship, you can take this quiz too to see if you're treating your girl the way she deserves. Either way, let's explore your texting style, communication, and little daily choices to see if your love is giving royalty vibes or bare-minimum scrub vibes. Take the quiz to find out!
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It’s your birthday. What does your partner do?
• Plans a surprise party, decorates, and gets a gift based on that thing you mentioned 3 months ago.
• Gets you a nice gift and dinner (possibly after a few well-timed hints from you)
• Buys you a cake and a pre-written card and calls it good.
• Texts “hbd” and Venmos you coffee money.
You’re sick and stuck in bed. How do they handle it?
• Shows up with soup, meds, and a cozy movie list.
• Checks in by text and stops by or DoorDashes a care package.
• Says “get better soon” and lets you rest solo.
• Acts annoyed you canceled plans and gets frustrated at the "inconvenience".
You get dressed up for a night out. Their reaction is…
• Jaw drops to the floor, can't take his eyes off of you, takes 100 photos
• Says you look great and snaps a quick pic.
• Says “nice” and goes back to their phone.
• Does not even notice until you point it out.
It’s Valentine’s Day. What's the plan?
• Thoughtful plans (homemade dinner or a night out), love notes, and a little extra sparkle.
• Dinner reservation, flowers, and a card.
• Last-minute grocery store chocolates.
• Complaining that it's "just a Hallmark holiday"
You’re having a rough day. How do they comfort you?
• Listens, validates your feelings, and brings your favorite comfort snack.
• Gives a pep talk and suggests a distraction to help you feel better.
• Says that he's sure it will get better and sends a cutesy meme.
• Says “that sucks” and changes the subject to be about him.
You mention wanting to try a cool new restaurant. What do they do?
• Books it right away for your next date. Obviously.
• Makes a note and eventually takes you there in a month or so.
• Says “sure, sometime” and then probably forgets about it.
• Complains about the price or style of food.
It’s raining and you forgot your umbrella. What do they do?
• Shows up with an umbrella and a hot drink like a rom-com.
• Puts their arm around you and shares their umbrella.
• Suggests that you two hold hands and run through the rain quickly.
• Says to walk faster instead of helping.
How do they handle anniversaries?
• Plans an experience and tells you how much you mean to them. You don't even have to remind them.
• Nice dinner and a small thoughtful gift, with some nudging.
• Only remembers after you bring it up.
• Complains that "we just celebrated last year"
You ask for a small favor, like grabbing groceries. Their response?
• Does it without hesitation and adds some extra snacks they know you like.
• He does it without complaining.
• He does it, but only after grumping and complaining.
• Says he's too busy, even though he's not.
When you are stressed about work or school, how do they act?
• He listens closely, helps you solve problems, and makes sure you eat.
• He sends supportive texts checks in a couple times about it.
• Says that you will be fine and moves on.
• Gets annoyed that you're cranky and tunes you out.
You’re not just getting flowers, you’re getting them delivered with a handwritten note and a snack they knew you were craving. The effort is consistent, thoughtful, and a little extra in the best way. People might clown on you for being spoiled or having high standards, but the truth is that you just know your worth. You're not settling for anything less than Princess Treatment, and you clearly have a guy who knows that!
You get a mix of real effort and slight misses, Maybe he surprises you with takeout after a bad day but gets your order wrong. There’s genuine care, and he's definitely trying...but it’s not always polished or consistent. Sometimes it feels like you're royalty, and sometimes it feels like “eh...close enough.” You could live with this, but you also know a little more sparkle wouldn’t hurt.
You’re technically not being neglected, but it’s giving “well...at least they tried.” There are moments when you feel appreciated, but it often feels like you're just kind of "there". Think of it as passing the vibe check with a C+. You might laugh it off, but girl...you deserve more than a half-assed effort.
This guy is a walking red flag. You're an afterthought while he thinks about video games, sports, or pretty much anything else except what should obviously be the most important thing in his world...YOU. This is the “texting you back after three hours with a thumbs-up emoji” tier of treatment. Do you remember that song "No Scrubs" by TLC? This is the kind of guy that song warns you about. He thinks he's the prize, when he should be begging for your time. Put him on a Performance Improvement Plan, or just kick him straight to the curb. Because girl? You deserve better.
